Sorry, I was referencing the book, "How My Parents Learned To Eat", which is a picture book about an intermarriage. Where the father needs to learn to use chopsticks and the mother learns to use a fork. After reading the book, I collected chopsticks for all my students and brought in small marshmallows to teach the students how to use chopsticks properly. I used this book in conjunction with "Everybody Eats Rice".