I love comics, but this is the first time I read comics that preached to me.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the little drawings and such, but I'm wondering if the teachings are outdated?
If you hand feed a dog that always bites, basically these comics praise those dog owners that continually feed the dog until the dog drops dead feeling guilty OR learns that the hand is GOOD and the owner is GOOD and that he/she shouldn't bite the owner's hand.
I've heard of "turning the other cheek", but keep in mind we humans have 2 cheeks on the face & *ahem* the other 2 cheeks are not available 😐 .
-Amy
outdated. just a little; man, thats quite an understatement. i enjoyed reading the comics cause i enjoy comics in general. to the message, however, i cannot agree more to the fact that you aren't supossed to take them seriously.
i enjoyed the message with the second comic with taking care of the mother in law. the message made sense to me at least. children should take good care of their parents.
but the first one i just coudln't understand. parents who bolt up their own children in wells should be beaten silly in my opinion, but anyways -__-
i recognize that these comics seem ridiculous to us but maybe that just shoulds what they are supposed to teach our seminar, which is that "dang, we have changed". filial devotion to that point sickens us, but maybe it was normal to Asians of the time.
in present day [western] society, filial devotion to that point seems nonsensical. realists (like myself) would argue that not all parents are that great, and we can't keep on turning the other cheek if they, for instance, buried us in a well! -.-
notice that the turning point, at least in my opinion, was when God took an active role to help Shun out. not in any way saying that God wouldn't do this if he did indeed exist, but just for the sake of my argument, i'd say the whole filial devotion theme in the comic RELIES on the fact that god would take an active role and send elephants to plough the land with their tusks and birds to sow seeds for lucky Shun. so let's assume that God doesn't take crazy acts of divine interventions to help those of us who are insanily devoted to our parents.
in a perfect world maybe. but not the one we live in. maybe God does help out a few of us who are indeed devoted to our parents, but by anecdotal evidence, not ALL of us. hence, people like shun woudln't survive very long in the real, or in the very least, he would be mercilessly taken advantage of.
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Hm.. I thought the filial devotion piece really reflected Chinese culture or maybe even Asian culture as a whole. I know my parents always tell me that it is important to take care of one's parents in their old age because they took care of you while you were young. I think the story about the breast feeding daughter in law was particularly funny because it is common for most daughter in laws (at least in Chinese culture) to respect their mother in law greatly. I remember an instance where my aunt did not tell my grandmother that she was leaving the country for a month. My grandmother threw a fit and called her disrespectful. In general I think it would be hard to get along with in laws especially if you are a daughter in law since most sons tend to be a mama's boy. No matter how good you might be the mother in law will always find a fault in you and believe you are not good enough for her son. Same with daughters beings daddy's little girl. A girl's father will never truly like his son in law. I think since most of us are ABC's or at least Americanized it is hard for us to follow these rules of filial piety even though our parents have tried to brand it into our heads since we were little tots. A common expression I tell my parents is " We aren't in CHINA anymore." I can _____ " " If you want me to sit down in a white dress with my feet bounded and smile estactily find a new daugher" yes.. harsh words from my mouth.. but im sure most of us have felt this way at one point in our life. at least if we had the strict asian parents. Some of us werent lucky to have the nice lienient ones. = / ..and still don't even though we have become 18.
i think the comic on filial devotion was a bit far-fetched. it's not everyday that we have people like Madam Tang who feeds her children gruel and her mother-in-law her own breast milk. and then there's the story of Shun who's always so nice to everyone even when others mistreat him. i agree with afang, in a perfect world, we MIGHT have people like Madam Tang and Shun, but in a realistic world such as this...i'd say not everyone is so optimistic and THAT righteous. i wonder how the kids in China react after they have read this comic..